female I feel like a teenager for having a crush like that. On your next appointment just make small talk with him, then ask him "do you have a girlfriend?". 6 Shares. Add your answer to this question! Thanks! Well, here's the thing: You'll lose your doctor, whether or not he responds to your advances. I am no love expert and haven't really experienced love yet so I am not too sure. I want to give him a hint but I don't know how. Would it be weird to add him on Facebook? I visited his linked he is so interesting and we have common hobbies and sports ! Please help me ! and he is the nicest man ever. Still have questions? I am single, I have no idea about him. What should you do if you are just NOT getting over someone. Each time I go see him, I get butterflies and nervous. Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended! I have a major crush on the ER doctor where I sometimes go for care. How to Tell If Your Crush Likes You Back Test - 6 Signs Your Crush Likes You But Is Shy - Duration: 3:58. Excuse my english, i live in europe. I have a slight variation on the above question - what if your crush is on your fathers doctor, and you are the one responsible for his care. It is a small surgery, local anaesthesia. It is unethical for a medical professional to date a patient. Please help. We get along really well and have some pretty in … female I went and after explaining what I had he said I was having stress and that he would like to see me again to talk for one hour about the problems in my life in his office. Join the community to continue the conversation today. But how can i make this doc go away from my mind. I have this huge crush on my Doctor. how do i get over him? Not sure how to subtly/not so subtly know that I am interested. The content below was sourced from real posts on the Whisper app, the largest online community where people anonymously share real thoughts and feelings. I had one consultation appointment, one visit to do the surgery and the third and probably final is next week. I have a gi who I don't exactly have a crush on but I get along with, the surgeon I definitely have a crush on, and the assistant surgeon who examined my stoma suspecting a parastomal hernia in the ER I definitely fell in love with. The first time I ever met him, I was in a relationship but I'm single now. My doctor last time seemed like he was attracted to me and flirting with me but who knows i could be wrong. But hopefully that will work, then sometime you can text him and just tell him you like him. reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008): A Last year I went to a new doctor (gp). How to let him know? I have a crush one of my doctors and a friend of mine has a crush on the same doctor. My boyfriends wants a threesome but I don't. If he says yes then for all he knows it could just be a patient curious about his life in a platonic way, and if he says no then it would be obvious to him that you want him to ask you for your number. I have a crush on my surgeon who is married and have kids. But before that you have to know if he is single. We have all had crushes on people that are just never going to feel the same. I think he’s really cute and nice, an awesome singer and photographer. I met by chance on the street a professor from my university and without telling him anything he told me I remember. lol. reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (9 April 2007): A I am not sure how to tell him? Then you have to be extra nice to all the doctors so it's not so obvious that your so nice to your crush doctor. I went to a new eye doctor the other day and he was very cute. 4, 8 and 22 each saw 8 drivers infected in the same 6-month period. reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): A If he says why just tell him. I am married (14 years) with 3 kids. My sister told me he was hot so i guessed why not I was sick anyways I needed a doctor's letter. I visited his linked he is so interesting and we have common hobbies and sports ! I'm 26 .. reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2012): A Twitter. Some reasons you might feel the crush is that he listens to you and is caring and also that he's an authority figure. I would love actually to go out with him. McDreamy." female Final one next week and I really don't want to stop seeing him, I do want to heal of course but I want to see him outside of his cabinet, as a friend, potential boyfriend. I see him 3x/week, but I wish it was more. He is very kind, caring and smart. A friend told me he thinks it's normal to fall in love with your doctors. I only have one more visit with him. If I had a crush on my doctor, I'd be really healthy, because I would *never* miss an appointment- so I think it would be a good thing. I've spent the better part of an hour searching the web for anything remotely close to what I've experienced. The problem is he is my physical therapist. Someone else was supposed to be on call one day, I was in a hurry, didn't do a thing with my hair or makeup, then I saw him! but sometimes it feels like we have a bit of a connection. I have a huge crush on my doctor. I’ve been looking at his social media accounts and found out that he’s single. 0 0. I think it is mutual. It's natural to feel attracted to someone that has taken great care of you. reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2007): A At least you are wise enough to know that it is a crush and not believe that you are "in love" Enjoy your dreams and it will fizzle out in time Once, I had to go to an oral surgeon and he was so cute the nurses and hygentists called him "Dr. How can I do it? He is my primary care physician..i am in my late twenties and he is in his mid forties.. i am married.. and he think he is also.. Then your co-workers name 6 other doctors that they think you have a crush on! male HI ENA! reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): A I can’t look at him straight in the face! Trump is trying to get around Twitter's ban, Men in viral Capitol riot photos arrested, Woman dubbed 'SoHo Karen' snaps at morning TV host, NFL owner's odd declaration alters job openings rankings, 'Punky Brewster': New cast pic, Peacock premiere date, Relative of woman trampled at Capitol blames Trump, Flight attendants: Pro-Trump mob was 'dangerous', Official: Trump went 'ballistic' after being tossed off Twitter, Unhappy soccer player's troll attempt backfires, Fallout for CEO's alleged Capitol entry during riots, Rush Limbaugh deactivates his Twitter account. This is my first post. He touches me alot, smiles at me, hugs me....he's really hot. I have a crush on my eye doctor. My doctor is maybe 34. It is a small surgery, local anaesthesia. reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): A What to tell him ? I admired her because she had gone into medicine late in life and was 36 before she qualified, and was a nurse before that. compliment him but nothing sexual. My friend/coworker told me about this site so here goes!! I have a crush on my doctor? Worst case scenario, if he says yes and he realises it's because you are interested in him, then he'll just be flattered. Follow. Is it ethical to switch him to a different doctor just to get the chance to find out if this current doctor is interested? It's normal to develop an innocent crush on your doctor, says Dehn. This is just it: I have a mad crush on my doctor. Nearly 900 CTA workers have had COVID-19; 18 of them drove the busy No. I am single, I have no idea about him. so it looks like i don't have a chance anyway. Crushes on doctors are common. Plus he's 50 and I'm 21. so I obviously don't plan on acting on it. Don't have an account? male My marriage is not all that satisfying these days but divorce is not an option, so I am finding myself in a constant fantasyland with my doctor! Join Yahoo Answers and get 100 points today. Tweet. I definitely have a little crush on him. It wasn't really about him (though he's a good person) at all. I can’t accept that people like me. female I Think My Doctor Has a Crush on Me, But I Don’t Want to Look Foolish By Asking. Had not seen him in a few months. He is about 20 years older than me(but he does not look it at all.) I have this huge crush on my doc. flirt with him in the appointments. yea my ob/gyn doctor as well ..omg did i have a crush on him then he moved away then 7 years later i got pregnant and had to go to another one and this Dr.was way too hott ..hotter than the last one and i had it bad for him but i was huge pregnant man the fantasies i have had about him...then he almost killed me in delivery so i never went back to him..damn my luck sucks.. Also keep in mind, even if he does have a crush on you, it is morally and ethically wrong for him to get involved with a patient. It's been over a year? I got so nervous that he might recognize me that I could barely speak to him. I just saw him today for some upper back pain I've been having. I barely know the man, and he's not my type at all...so why is this happening...and how do I make it go away? The room is cold and all you have to cover up is a flimsy paper towel masquerading as a hospital gown. I'm happily married and have a child. He only wants to meet if there is a possibility of sex. at first i didn't really care or think about him that much but 5 weeks after i saw him, and i can't stop thinking about him right now! Ask his number, then it will feel much less awkward. I met this wonderful man at physical therapy, whom I noticed from the beginning was attracted to me. He has been reprimanded once before for dating a patient, so I know he's not against that kind of thing, but I believe he has a girlfriend now (whether it's the patient he was reprimanded for dating or someone else entirely, I don't know.) Try not to make it cheesy. My surgeon is a very attractive (and very gay) man. Facebook. it's flirting ? All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft, Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column. As long as you keep it in perspective, it's pretty harmless. I value and respect him very much and don't want this to be an issue. If you do not have his number, to make it less awkward than randomly asking him, maybe when he fixes you up you could stand up and be like "thanks. Should I care if a girl I like lost her virginity to someone else? I thought posting in here would be the best place to get advice since we're all just looking for love in this big, scary world. when all the medical care is finished and you are no longer (medically!) 79 or No. Why is that? ? I know this is common doctor-patient crush. I had a crush once on a female orthopedic surgeon. (as if I'd even have a chance.) my guy friend asked me where you would go on vacation in a cute way. Anonymous. I have a feeling that he likes me very much.I get that vibe.He helped me to cure something I suffered for 5 years.I feel so guilty because I have a big crush on him.I like to see him.I told my husband about it.He was fine at the begging. I know he’s single. We chatted a bit and he was really nice. Soon, he started flirting with me, and I followed the lead. By the way, can I please have your number?" He's married w/ kids . She was very attractive on the outside, but an inspiration on the inside too. "Tell a girlfriend, that way you can both laugh about it," … I have a crush on my surgeon and i think it is mutual. He is so handsome, his personality etc. With your doctor, what do you have to lose? reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2013): A Or, is it just me? I'm sure it's some kind of transference type thing, but in the meantime, how do I keep from making a jerk of myself? Well, they are only 2 dates ah sorry appointments ! If you don't know yet, ask him "are you single?" female Get your answers by asking now. That being said, I cannot get him out of my head. Patients Tell All: I Have A Crush On My Doctor. I have this humonnnnnngous crush on my doctor. He is so welcoming and sees me about epilepsy. A under him and discharged from his care, no longer his patient you could send him a thank you card with your phone number and ask him in the card with something like: 'I'd love to buy you coffee or a drink sometimes #123456789'. He is so handsome, his personality etc. reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2007): A reader, tth76  +, writes (18 June 2010): A i know he's married and he may be 15-20 yrs older than me. 49 bus routes The Nos. When I had a similar crush, it was really because I wanted my professor's life. Have a crush on a Dr. McDreamy? How can I do it without scaring him ? Ask his number, then it will feel much less awkward feel much less awkward awkward. 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